The Aam Aadmi Party... to Uplift Downtrodden and Deprived People/Principles

A slight diversion to my usual blog posts about the little one…. This one is about Aam Aadmi Party’s (AAP) success, its possible leadership…my views… my expression

The Aam Aadmi Party (AAP) has risen overnight, we all know, and quite gracefully with its stunning show that is felt across the country. It’s phenomenal to witness how the party has touched the latent chord creating new imagination and hope in national politics. It’s like a sudden positive uplift that seems as if people were waiting for something like this to happen. Many enthusiasts are eager to support the fledging and flaring Delhi-based party for its principles and core agenda – to sweep/root out corruption, whilst other parties are merely engaged in corruption allegations. To many of us it has evoked a sense of personal positive feeling towards the party. By ‘personal positive feeling’ I meant how the party has managed to approach people with its simple principles and goals. In AAP’s success many have found something personal to rejoice over, perhaps, we wouldn’t just vote for them, we wish to become one of them….probable candidates. And why not, it’s simple-yet-genuine way to approach people for votes, it’s core agenda to root out corruption and most importantly, it is a party of youngsters for they do assure good governance.

Well, although the result achieved by AAP is certainly a positive change, very inspiring, good for democracy and so forth, it does face spats from many apart from its opposition and foes, understandable. I’m not talking about people in other parts of the country here for obvious reasons, but, pointing out to those who aren’t very sure of extending their support as they would want to wait and watch, probably give a couple of years before choosing the party. Some wouldn’t choose at all for this party wouldn’t distribute money and gifts like other main parties do. Well, an indication of the intense feeling that AAP has evoked is evident and the Delhi results show the possibility of a genuine Third Front. Let’s hope!

AAP you are certainly not a traditional political party and there is no reason why you can’t do well if you stick to your cause. You have my vote for you seem to be a party of principles wanting to really help people! Way to go…and keep it up.

b.l.i.s.s.fullness

Watching you sleep is b.l.i.s.s

Feeling the warmth of your snuggle is b.l.i.s.s

Tracing the curve of your cheeks is b.l.i.s.s

Hearing the deeply resonating sound of the 'ammmmmaaaaa' when you say my name is b.l.i.s.s

Your cheeky smile on demand is b.l.i.s.s

A glimpse of all your tiny teeth is b.l.i.s.s

Watching you wave those 3 tiny fingers when you like the taste of something you eat is b.l.i.s.s

Holding your hands as we walk together is b.l.i.s.s

To have you lie like a dormant kitten on my shoulder is b.l.i.s.s

Singing to you as I change your diaper is b.l.i.s.s

Feeding you is b.l.i.s.s

Dressing you up is b.l.i.s.s

To hear your chortle of delight at every squeeze, however uncomfortable, is b.l.i.s.s

Feeling your hand on my cheek when you wake up in the middle of the night is a comfort beyond measure and a complete b.l.i.s.s

To know you is b.l.i.s.s…to look upon you in everything you do is b.l.i.s.s... And to love you.....h.e.a.v.e.n!

May you be showered with the best of everything in life, little one. Mmmmuuaaahhh!

Sugar's First Birthday Bash

Sugar, please excuse amma for posting this topic really late. But hey...'Better Late Than Never'!

First Birthdays are always special. Sugar’s First Birthday bash was hosted on 8^th September 2013 in Mumbai Junction restaurant in Harrow, London. It was a fun filled party with yummy food, a lovely compact venue, delicious cake and awesome guests. Sugar was overwhelmed when she had a good glimpse of happy crowd wishing her, cuddling her, where she, in no time decided to go all cranky and was least interested in the cutting the cake. We thought she would be fine when she heard ‘Happy Birthday’ song in chorus, but in vain, she rather decided to take it as a new Lullaby! She fell asleep and we parents were glad that at least she was awake while the candles were blown and the cake was cut. A and I loved arranging and sorting out things for the party. Thanks to the grand parents for all the support in showing equal enthusiasm and involvement.

A Milestone

‘Settling In’ period – now this might sound a little heavy, but it is that period my little one is in right now before going to nursery/day care. It indeed is a major milestone for us and Sugar. A and myself did have quite a bit of discussion on when to send Sugar to nursery, with Sugar’s grandparents being around taking care for sometime, plus, she is barely One and so on. With a few opinions that differed between us, I kept wondering how we would accede on this very point and take the decision. We did think for a couple of months, enquired the nursery that is just a few minutes away from our house and checked out the place, the kids, the staff everything. It all looked good and the reviews we’ve heard about this nursery are good as well. But, I was sceptical and thought it was way too early for her. I’ve grown more anxious lately with anything concerning Sugar and I am convinced that it is a natural instinct a mother develops. As we both are full time working parents we needed to discuss this matter quite early. I dreaded it and I thought since my parents were around what was the necessity to send Sugar to nursery early on? I wasn’t prepared to send her until she turned 2 at least. I also mentioned that I was ready to quit my job, but that’s another topic for discussion and I wouldn’t want to digress at this point. A is a very practical person and I’m pretty emotional. He sat me through a few sessions advising, warning, giving lectures on practical benefits of enrolling your little one to a nursery even while having great support like grandparents at home. His point was what would happen after my parents left. Although my MIL would be around, it might be difficult to manage it all alone. And beyond all these reasons he said to think for Sugar where she would start meeting new kids, playing, socialising with other kids, more exposed to a lot of new things, new learning, new world altogether. She would realise that she cannot be the centre of attraction all the time. At first I still sulked, I thought, I analysed and finally agreed with A that we would start sending her to Nursery soon as she turned one and my parents too were happy with the decision.

Both A and I are ever are ever grateful to my parents for having taken care of Sugar, being there for her since the minute she was born and so carefully bringing her up, doing everything. The sense of security my parents gave us is immense and unmatchable. It wouldn’t have been possible without them. I’m sure they would continue to support, give security and be there for us and Sugar in future too. Well, there would be a separate blog post on this matter anyway, For now, yes, Sugar has started her ‘Settle In’ period today for an hour and would go for 2 more days before she starts going with her bag and her sweet self for a few consecutive hours each day. Hope everything goes well God showers his blessings as she hits this milestone!

Sugar

I’m back and I love it. I hope to be able to write often now for I have a sweet reason. Last few posts were sad and upsetting, but today, I’m a better person, my soul is happier – God gave me this best present, my daughter. The following posts in this blog are dedicated to my little one, I call her ‘Sugar’ and this space is reminiscence of the growing years of my little girl. Sugar, my hope!


On July 16, 2013, Sugar turned one. I took a day off from work to be with her all day - it was great fun. Abhi waited patiently for her to wake up and gave her the best cuddle. She was happy to be safe in her dad’s arms and the sight made my morning so special. My parents (her favourite people and best buddies) made sure that even the chores they did looked special. Mom cooked yummy delicacies; dad took Sugar out to show ducks and birds by the riverside in the morning. We sang ‘Happy Birthday’ song for the first time to her and she absolutely loved the tune so much that she wanted us to go on and on. We then took advantage of the song (quite odd, I know) as we sang while feeding her breakfast and she finished it within a few minutes, plus it was her favourite lullaby for the whole day. It did magic for sure.

We planned to take her to the ‘Play Centre’ that she goes to every Tuesday, at 10 am. The little one blissfully slept longer than usual so we got late by 40 minutes. I loved visiting the place myself as I rarely get to go there. I mentioned to the staff that it was Sugar’s first birthday and if I could distribute chocolates and cookies to the kids (obviously I had to consult each parent if her/his child could take the sweets fearing allergies that the kids might have). I’m glad the kids weren’t disappointed as they could go for either chocolate or cookies. There again, the staff announced that it was Sugar’s first birthday and wanted to sing ‘Happy Birthday’ song to her. She was thrilled to bits when she heard the song again and this time in chorus. She had the most amazing smile on her face throughout.

In the evening, we had simple celebrations at home as we wanted to keep it simple. Sugar’s chitti and chikappa (my sister and BIL) came in the evening bringing more joy to her and we had another couple-friend. Our small house looked full and bright. There were simple decorations and a tiny cake. We plan to have a party in a couple of months just when MIL can join us here in London. So many affectionate phone calls poured in to wish Sugar from different parts of the world. I felt so blessed. Abhi and I discussed how fast the past year had gone by and how beautiful the journey has been.

We love you Sugar and may God bless with a WONDERFUL life ahead. Thankyou for making our lives ever so BEAUTIFUL.